Flirting Natural

So you wanna flirt? And you want make it seem natural?

Most conversations usually start with 'hello' proven by several billion people and still the best.

Followed by a positive question. We love to talk about ourselves, asking a question about the person you are communicating with is flattering and suggests you are actually interested in listening to them.

Unless you know different the world is not about to end. Light hearted banter about inconsequential but safe subjects allows each of you to explore the styles in which you both communicate so as to find common ground.

Don't expect it come naturally, flirting is about attitude, its not serious, get it right or wrong life will go on. Practice whilst it won't necessarily make perfect it will help to make it more natural.

Listening is everything there is more than one way to ask a question. You can force people to answer defensively 'Why don't you?' or you can nudge them respectfully 'What do think of?'

Stay on topic, if you ask someone a question then changing the subject after or during the answer it suggests a lack of interest, worse it suggests a complete lack of respect.

There is a responsibility for asking questions. Accept there might be an answer than that you didn't expect and sometimes don't like.